Friday, September 26, 2008

Tagged by Krista

Four things I love about my husband:
-he spoils me with amazing surprises
-he is incredibly sexy
-he vacuums
-the way he plays the piano


Four movies that I would watch more then once:

-The Princess Bride

-The Last of the Mohicans

-The Ghost and the Darkness

-Ferris Bueller's Day Off


Four TV shows I watch:
-Criminal Minds
-So you think you can dance
-Flashpoint (when I remember)
-CSI whatever (here and there)

Four Places I have been:
-Hawaii
-California
-Newfoundland
-Oklahoma

Four places I would like to go (that I haven't been yet):
-Egypt
-Australia
-Central America
-Boston

Four people who regularly email me:
-My husband
-My sister, Chrystal
-Aunt Jane
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Four Things I would like to eat:

-Cheesecake, anywhere, anytime
-Nachos at Ricks Grill
-Ice Cream...RIGHT NOW
-A supremely grilled steak

Four things I look forward to in the next year:
-Christmas in my new house
-Income tax Refund time
-Sending Tansley to preschool
-Camping, camping and more camping next summer

Four People I Tag:
-Amy Hubbard
-Shannon Rolfe
-Denise Garner
-Jasmine Burton



Tuesday, September 16, 2008

What kind of a mom am I?....

I just yelled at my 3 year old. I mean, I held her shoulders and I really yelled at her. I scared her. I scared her older sister. I feel sick inside. I just want to curl up in a ball and cry. I was so angry. I just let it go. It was nasty. It was ugly. It was down right mean. What am I teaching her? I was angry because she just punched her older sister three times in a row...again....right after giving her a hug and saying sorry for just doing the same thing twice before. Why does she hit her older sister? Because she has made her angry. So, I lost it when I was angry....therefore it's OK for her to lose it. Good job mom! I sent her to her room and told her to get in her pj's and go to bed. She came up after she was in her pj's to give me a hug. I talked to her calmly but sternly that I didn't want her to ever hit anybody ever again, and if she did I was going to start taking her dresses away(she loves her dresses, that is all she wears). So they both go to their room to go to bed, and not even five minutes later the oldest is back up telling me that her sister punched her again. So I go down and open her closet and take out a dress, she cries. Will this get her to stop being so violent to her older sister? I don't know, but nothing else is working, especially my own fit of rage.



Tuesday, September 2, 2008

We are the Crazy Family

So we are sitting enjoying the natural, rocky,hot pools of Lussier Hotsprings and I hear Kathryn talking with the people sitting next to us but I am not really paying attention to what she is saying until I hear her say "so we are the Crazy Family. Everyone in our family is crazy." To this everyone in the pool(and there were many), chuckle, I turn and dutifuly wave to all those preseant "Hi, that's us, the crazy family.", the gentleman closest to her says "that's a good thing in my family". Someone else says, "wait untill you are 16 and then see what you think", to which the first gentlelman replies with a huge grin on his face "when you're 16 you'll think that everything your parents say is right". Now that entire pool(or really the people in it) are laughing, to which Kathryn takes as a sign to continue her commentary. "We are all Coocoo heads. Silly billy's, My mom is silly, my dad is silly, we are all silly." Now, honestly everyone in that pool believed everything that she said, and with good reason. When we first got to the hotsprings it was cool and looking like it was going to rain. It is quite a walk down to the hotsprings from the parking lot and there are no change rooms, the girls changed into their swim suits in the van and walked down with a towel around them. So given the conditions they were kinda whiney becuase they were cold. However, it took some convincing to get them to get into the pool because it smelled funny and Kathryn was sitting on the edge making funny faces and holding her nose at the smell of the sulfur(despite the fact that we have been to these hotsprings 4 times before and she was excited to come to the hotsprings just moments before reaching the waters edge). Kymberly was screaming at the top of her lungs and trying to get away from Daddy(she has never been very fond of swimming or water for the matter), while I tried to coaks the other girls into the pool. I got Tansley in but Kathryn refused my help so I went and took Kymberly from Daddy and sat down and tried to get Kymberly used to the water. As soon as I was comfortable and had Kymberly down to a whimper, Kathryn decided that she wanted my help, not daddy's. But she had to put up with Daddy. And then of course the kids couldn't just stay in the water, they were up and out and cold and hot and all over the place. So why wouldn't they believe Kathryn when she proudly declared our craziness?

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So this crazy family had a fabulous time camping, as always. We enjoyed our favorite place, doing our favorite things with some pretty good weather. It only rained for a bit on Sunday evening, and then only for about an hour or so. The weather was perfect for spending a day at Fort Steele, not to hot, no wind or rain, just a really nice day to watch all that there is to see.
Street performers
We were pleased with the new street plays, with a new twist. The actors were fabulous and very entertaining and interacted with the audience really well. The RCMP Sargent scared Tansley, we(about 30 people) were trying to follow his orders so we could become his new recruits.
scary Sargent Smart
He was telling us how to stand at attention and we were all a little sloppy at it so he yelled at us, Tansley was trying so hard and she thought that he was seriously mad and she started to cry. So we walked away and I explained to her that he was just playing pretend and that he really wasn't mad and of course I told her that I thought she did a very good job. Later Tansley and Daddy played old fashioned basketball with a bunch of the other kids. It was so cute to watch her run around following Dad every where he went, I thought she might get trampled but she never did. She even got a chance to pass the ball to Dad. Kathryn didn't want to play because she said that sports aren't her thing, so we sat and cheered with the others. Kathryn was more than willing to help make old fashioned ice cream and Tansley was content to sit on the grass and watch. However they all enjoyed eating the delicious ice cream.  We love Fort Steele. It is such a fun place to go, and this year they had really changed the street plays so it was a nice fresh change.
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While at Fort Steele, we even ran into some old friends, the Curtis's, from when we lived in Saskatoon, we hadn't seen them since we moved from their almost six years ago, they were staying in the area too, but were looking for a new place to park their RV, so they came and camped at Norbury Lake for Saturday night and all the kids ran around and played untill it was too dark to run around and play and then they roasted marshmellows and got really sticky. When Tansley came to me and told me that she wanted to go to bed, we said good night and went over to our own campsite to put kids to bed. It was nice for the kids to then have familiar faces at church on Sunday and it was nice to visit with old friends.
All in all it was a great weekend of camping. Now it is back to school and back to routine. Which is good. Tansley need's a break from her big sister, and right now she need's her mom to go play the "grandma game", So I'll have to upload some pictures another time.

Monday, September 1, 2008

Interesting.

On my google home page, I subscribe to a number of interesting things to read, news, word of the day, friends blogs, joke of the day, recipe of the day and other such articles. One of which is appropriately called "Interesting thing of the day". I indeed have found some interesting things to read. Some are humorus, whether they were meant to be or not, I find them funny. Others are enlightening and yet others simply obscure. Here are two recent back to back posts that I found some what amusing.
First there was Furlongs per Fortnight and then came Metric time. If you need something to read, why not check these out. And if you are obsessed with measurements as much as Joe Kissell you can find more of his recent articles on "Interesting thing of the Day".

Friday, August 22, 2008

Hungry?

Through the summer, I admit, I am a terrible cook. We eat very basic, because I hate to stand over a hot stove or heat up my kitchen with the oven on 30 degree days. But the past couple of days, since it has cooled off a bit, we have been eating really well. I have to give all...well most of the credit to this websiteAllrecipes.com has become my new favorite website. It has thousands of ideas to change up your regular menu. You can create your own recipe box, shopping lists, and even your own recipe book. You can even type in the ingredients that you want and the ones that you don't want and then do a search to see what there is. I have found many simple, quick and tasty meals, as well as some that are a little more gourmetish. Everyone needs to check it out. Guaranteed you will find something to suit your tastes.

Here are a few that we have enjoyed.
Cheesy Beef 'n' rice - all of the girls loved this. It was a great quick dinner. I was lucky to have fresh parsley and basil on hand and WOW was that good.
Creamy Macaroni and Cheese - again the girls loved this. I didn't have Dijon mustard on hand so I justed used dry mustard (1/4 tsp or so) and I also added some paprika (1/2 tsp). We then added some ham and peas to the girls. And I added ham, green beans, green and red peppers and dash of hot red pepper flakes for some heat. Once again it was so good. Check out some of the other suggestions for veggies to add on that page.
Breaded Hamburgers - We liked this too. Simple and easy. The girls liked dipping it into Ketchup.
Joe's Favorite Hamburgers - These worked out great on the grill. I did read the review and made some of the suggested changes, unfortunately I don't really remember which changes I made. But they tasted great.
Pizza On The Grill I - This one I blogged about before. So go try it if you haven't already.
Here area a few that I look forward to trying in the future.
Brie Pecan Rollups with Raspberry Sauce
Chicken and Pasta in a Mango Cream Sauce
Byrdhouse Spicy Chicken and Peaches
Skillet Bow Tie Lasagna
Cumin Stuffed Chicken Breasts
Swiss Enchiladas - I didn't know the Swiss made Enchiladas.

I have a whole recipe box full of recipes I want to try. But you should really go look for yourself and find your own treasures.
All Recipes

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Back to what I was saying...about the horses.

So Sunday morning we got up and went to church. We only stayed for Sacrament meeting because Daniel had more "Best Man" duties to take care of and then we were heading out to Uncle Genes to see the horses. All morning Kathryn was asking if it was time to go see the horses. She was so excited. She's recently been developing a love of horses because one day she asked me what my favorite animal was and I had told her that when I was a kid I loved horses, I still think they are beautiful. She now notices nearly every horse that we pass anywhere. She oohs and awes over how pretty they are. So getting a chance to see a horse up close was really exciting for her. Finally it was time to go and she wanted to know how long it was going to take. But I couldn't giver her an answer because I didn't know and that made her a little cranky. She often needs to know exactly why, how, when, where and what, precisely to the very detail(it drives me a little crazy sometimes).
As we drove into the farm yard I was breathless, it was beautiful as the trees opened up to the corals and horses. It was slightly up on a hill so it overlooked everything and you could see for a long ways. The thick forest of trees surrounding the farmstead were gorgeous, and the horses breathtaking. It was a sight right out of an old western. And then there came Uncle Gene, as if out of nowhere, dressed in very typical cowboy dress complete with cowboy hat. We had definitely entered another world. Uncle Gene had brought out two horses, Casey he had saddled with a little saddle for the kids to ride on. Beside Casey was a horse named Pirate, I'll give you one guess as to how he got his name.
Pirate the one eyed horse
Kathryn was astounded at how beautiful the horses were. After a little bit of chit chat, Gene put Kathryn up on Casey and head to the coral.
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He explained to her how to ride the horse and told her that once she was comfortable on the horse she could let go and ride with no hands. Kathryn shook her head and say no way, but before long she was putting one hand out
and then the other and sure enough she was balanced and riding with out any hands.
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Mean while Tansley was feeding carrots to the miniature pony, Sinbad and to Pirate. She wanted to ride the little horse but we weren't sure if there was a saddle for him or not, so Tansley was getting upset. I asked her if she wanted to ride with Uncle Gene on a horse and she said "NO!". By then Gene had brought out this gorgeous black horse named Curly. Curly is Gene's horse, he calls him "son" when he talks to him, and when he talks about Curly his bright blue eyes twinkle with pride and joy. After he had Curly saddled, he asked Tansley if she wanted to ride with him and Tansley nodded her head yes...and then got up on the horse with Uncle Gene and off they went with Kathryn trotting behind. At first they just trotted around the yard, and then they went out for a longer ride.  Kathryn was loving it!
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When they got back Uncle Gene said "lets get that little one up on a horse". Now anyone that knows Kymberly knows that she does not do well with people she doesn't know and sometime she doesn't even do well with people she knows if it isn't mom or dad. So it was no surprise to us that she was upset when Daniel handed her to Gene. But then Gene rode off with her and there was silence....until Gene turned around and came back and Daddy was in view and then she started fussing. Gene laughed and said that she was bouncing along with the horse and humming along with him until she saw her dad.
Kymberly with Uncle Gene
When they got back Gene wanted to get Daniel up on a horse,
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but he didn't look to thrilled about that. Apparently he had a bad experience when he was a scout. But Gene had him come into the coral and showed him that no matter what he was always in control, whether he had a hold of the reins or not.
He had us stand in the middle of the coral
and then he told Curly what he wanted him to do using words, body language and gestures. Gene is the Horse Whisperer in real life.  With out touching Curly he could get him to go any where in the coral, or make him stop instantly. He showed us how the horses are trained to be around kids so that if someone gets under them they will hold their leg up to avoid stepping on them until they were out of the way. Daniel was feeling a little better at being on a horse and Gene commenced in teaching him how to get the horse to do what he wanted him to do. It was a little funny watching Daniel trying to get up on the horse but once he was up there and Curly was responding to him just as Gene had said he would it looked like he was enjoying himself. They couldn't get a saddle on Sinbad for Tansley but they put her on there bare back and she loved it. Sadly we didn't have enough time for me to get on the horse, we were already an hour late for the family get together down the road. But watching the kids on the horses was more than enough for me.
Gene and his Horse Curly
We then headed just up the road to the Thiessens for the family thing. Hanging out with the Thiessens is like hanging out with my own family. The same crazy stories are told, there is alot of laughing and even water fights. However Gene and I both agreed that their water fights are nothing compared to a Forsyth water fight, as Gene put it "they didn't even bring out the five gallon buckets." Those involved were only mildly damp. The big story, second only to the wedding itself, was the chance reunion of Gene and I. It was a great time and everyone was saying that Daniel and I now had more reasons to come and visit more often. And really, I can see myself actually going all that way to visit both Travis and Debbie(and the rest of the Thiessens) and Gene. We would just do it over 7-10 days so that we could take our time driving up there and home again. Coming home was a long long long drive. Kymberly was sick and threw up just as we were coming into Nanton. That was a big yucky mess that we had to clean up, and then she screamed all the way to Claresholm with out so much as a break and a good way past as well. she finaly fell asleep but would scream periodically the rest of the way home to Milk River. We left Grande Prairie at 9:30am and arrived in Milk River at 11pm. Again we stopped in Mayerthorpe for lunch and in Calgary for supper and to buy school supplies. It was a long trip but totally worth it.

Wedding surprises

Daniel's friend, Travis Rustling was one of Daniel's grooms men at our wedding. So when he called and told us that he was getting married and that he wanted Daniel to be his best man, there was no question as to whether we would make the long trip to Grande Prairie to attend his wedding. We booked our hotel room back in April to make sure we would have a room. We were able to get a room with a full kitchen so we wouldn't have to worry about eating out, it also had three rooms. A room with bunkbeds for the girls, the Kitchen/sitting room with a pull out couch and the main bedroom (a full breakfast was also included). Because we had the space we invited Craig Sellars(a friend of Dan and Travis) to stay with us t
oelp both of us cut costs.
We left Lethbridge Thursday morning at 9:30am and arrived in Grande Prairie at 9:30pm. We made a couple of stops in Airdrie and Whitecourt to eat lunch and supper. But poor Kymberly was miserable for the last 2 or 3 hours of the trip. she screamed for a good 2 hours, making our long trip feel even longer. We were very grateful for the DVD player that kept the older girls busy. And even more glad that we had arrived at the hotel to put kids to bed. Friday was a busy day for Daniel, he was out and about doing "Best Man" duties, but the girls and I just hung out at the hotel and played at the pool on and off all day. It was great, after all that driving it was nice to just hang out and enjoy the cool water.
Tansley

Saturday afternoon was the big wedding day.
The Head Massage
Daniel had to go get the Groom so that the girls could do their getting ready thing, so he brought him back to our hotel room for awhile. Kathryn and Tansley were more than willing to give the Groom a warm up for the day.
They wrestled with him, danced with him, gave him a head massage and a special kind of facial. Finally it was time for the guys to go get ready and me and the girls once again headed to the pool before having a bath and getting ourselves all pretty. The wedding was at 2pm, we arrived at the church early so that we would be close to the front. The girls weren't ready to sit still just yet so we went to stand in the lobby while the guests were arriving. Then I saw this man that had a very long bushy beard and look very much like my uncle Gene (who lives in Grande Prairie and whom I haven't seen in about 15yrs), but why would my uncle Gene be at this wedding? So when there was no one at the guest book and went and looked to see if his name was there, and sure enough there it was "Gene Forsyth". Weird! I don't know my uncle Gene very well. Like I said I haven't seen him in about 15 years, and only a handful of times that I can remember before that. Because of the distance he has had with the family and becuase I really don't know anything about him, I have always assumed that he wasn't a social guy and that he just kept to himself, so I wasn't really sure what I would say to him or if I would at all.
The new Mrs and Mr. Rustling
So we went in to the wedding, which was wonderful. I loved what the pastor had to say about love and making sure that you allow God to help you have that never failing love in your marriage because you can't do it with out Him. It actually sounded much like what you would hear at a Temple wedding. When the pastor said "you may now kiss the bride" and they kissed Kathryn said "yuck". Daniel said later that he heard her. It was really beautiful and simple.
 As I walked out of the church I saw Gene standing in the shade of a tree and as I approached him he just said casually, "It's nice to get this coat off and stand in the shade". I smiled and said "uncle Gene?". He looked at me with a confused look on his face, so I said "I'm Rex's daughter Mandy" and that just about gave him a heart attack. His eyes went wide and he put his hand to his chest and gasped, "oh my, what are you doing here?". I explained how my husband was the best man and that we had both gone to high school with the groom. So I asked how he was connected, He sold a parcel of land to the Brides parents and they are now neighbours, and basically family. He told me that if he would have known we were coming we could have stayed at his ranch. Silly me for not thinking of calling up my uncle that I don't really know and asking if we could stay at his place...just didn't cross my mind. But as we talked I realized that he was nothing like I thought he would be. He was a Forsyth through and through, humble, social, friendly and very kind. He invited us out to his ranch so that the girls could see his horses. I wasn't sure when we could fit it in and the girls were getting restless standing in the sun, so we said that we would talk about it more at the reception. I left the church dumbfounded at the coincidental reunion.
The  Reception was at 6pm, so we had some down time at the hotel. I made everybody nap...which ended up being a small disaster. When I woke the girls to get ready to go to the reception, all three of them were screaming at the top of their lungs, I was able to settle both Tansley and Kymberly, but there was nothing I could do for Kathryn, who just kept making things worse for herself. I arrived at the Elks Hall with a pleasant Kymberly and screaming hysterical Kathryn and a crying Tansley simply because Kathryn was screaming. I left Kathryn and Tansley in the running van and went in to see if Daniel was around to give me some assistance, but he hadn't arrived yet. So I just stood outside in the shade and waited for him to arrive to try to calm the storm. When he finally arrive he was able to quite the storm but not completely end it. I'll take what I can get. So we entered the reception a little frazzled and just sat where we could, not paying attention to who was around. When it was time to eat, Gene's table was one of the first to be called to dish up, he brought his table sign over to our table and said that now we could go dish up to eat. He'd obviously seen the chaos that I was going through. After dinner and all the formalities were over the Dance started. I took that opportunity to go sit and talk with Gene. And it worked out that there was a family get together and the Brides parents place on Sunday afternoon that we were supposed to be out. It was decided that we would come out an hour early and go first to Uncle Gene's place and see the horses and then head over to the dinner. The girls had a blast at the dance, they danced with both Uncle Travis and Uncle Craig. They of course danced with daddy and they danced with Debbie's(The Bride) nephews(who were teenagers). We all had a great time and I finally took the kids back to the hotel at about 10pm. Kathryn went to bed excited about going to see the horses the next day.
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I'll have to blog about that day a little later, I've been neglecting the children and they seem to want to eat lunch. Duty calls, I'll be back after lunch.